A while back, my cousin asked me if I observed Lent, and if not, why not. I don’t. The reason I don’t is that I simply do not have the background needed for it to make any sense to me. The same thing goes for Ramadan. I don’t fast. The muslims are supposed to go from sunrise to sunset without any food or water, sex, tobacco, or any other luxury. I could do the food part, but I really can’t imagine doing without water in place that is so dry. People that are sick, women that have their period, young children, and “travellers” are exempt from the fasting as I understand it. I think the women are supposed to make up the lost fasting time afterwards. I also believe that the traveling exemption was made in a time when people travelled by camel if they were lucky, and more often they travelled on foot. I don’t really think airplanes count. As with every religious observance, some adhere to the strict letter (as they interpret it) and some go more by the spirit of the law. They cheat a little IMO, they change their eating habits significantly, they eat “breakfast” at 3 or 4 AM, have their first big meal after the evening call to prayer, and usually eat late as well. I have noticed that the English language papers use the word breakfast literally, when they talk about breakfast during Ramadan, they mean break fast, it’s the meal right after the sun sets, not their first one of the day.
I fasted by accident yesterday. I did drink water, but I didn’t have anything to eat until 7PM or so. I had expected to have a nice, big bowl of cereal when I woke up. It turns out that the milk that I thought I bought the other day was actually buttermilk… YECHH! That was a bit of a surprise. When people ask me if I’m fasting, I reply, “La, anna mahseehee meskeen fahkat.” Which translates to “No, I am only an (unfortunate) Christian…” That usually will make people grin and avoid the ensuing “why” conversation. I’m still a little fuzzy on the actual “why” of Ramadan for muslims. I have heard that it is to make people experience what it is like to be poor, but that doesn’t really seem like a good fit, they gorge themselves at night. I assume that it is like the Christian fasting, it is used to hone one’s vision of oneself and to keep God in mind. I’ve only heard one muslim tell me this, and she’s not even in this country anymore. I’ll ask around some more here, but as usual, I don’t know if I’ll find an answer that makes a lot of sense here.