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Yemen is…

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I’ve been back for a little while now and I’ve been trying to think of some way to “sum up” what I experienced in Yemen. I don’t think I can come up with a sentence like, “Yemen is X.” It’s just too complicated… It was a year and a half of my life after all. Even if it was boring (it usually wasn’t), summarizing a whole year and a half wouldn’t be easy.

There are a lot of good things about Yemen. The people are very hospitable, the country itself can be incredibly beautiful, and it is a fascinating place to experience. On the other hand, the political environment is rather unstable, there is a really rigid class system, and there’s always the crushing poverty to deal with as well.

I never did immerse myself into the culture. Call it being stuck-up, cultural elitism or what have you but I never felt that I should accept what I saw as the more negative elements of the culture. The racism, the sexism, what seemed like a love of ignorance at times, and let’s be honest, the general laziness. I’m not going to pretend that those things don’t exist here in the States, but the Yemenis take those things to a whole new level.

I’m not going to spend much time bitching here, you can read all of my older posts for that. I do feel like I learned some valuable things over there, but I’m not going to to be able to summarize them in a blog post. Suffice it to say, the whole experience was a positive one overall. I will continue to post things here about Yemen as they occur to me or as things happen in the news. Stay tuned, hopefully I’ll figure out what to do with these experiences over time…

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A dazed Yemeni

There were many times I fantasized about taking a Yemeni back home in order to show them what life could be like. I always imagined that they would have been a bit overwhelmed by everything. The green everywhere, the variance in the weather, the different kinds of food, women you can see, etc. I wondered how they would take it all in. I think I have an idea now.

My father asked me to pick some things up at the grocery store on my way over to his place. I hadn’t driven in 6 months, it felt good to get behind the wheel again. Everything seemed so orderly, as if something was directing everything, and it was so quiet. I still haven’t heard a single horn since I got back. The intersections were particularly impressive. Everyone waited their turn and there wasn’t any question when people should go across.

I got to the grocery store and was blown away. This happened to me the last time I came back as well. There’s something about grocery stores here, there’s just so much of everything. I was sent to get some corn. i ended up wandering through the fruits and vegetables for about 10 minutes looking for the corn. I eventually asked someone where it was, it turns out that I had been looking at it the entire time but I hadn’t seen it. I then went looking for some potato salad with similar results. The deli section quite literally stunned me.

It was a sad thing, but I really was overwhelmed by the place. I’m still marveling over the flora, I can’t get enough of the trees and the grass that’s everywhere. I’m sure this will wear off in a little while, but all of these little things are really throwing me for a loop. With any luck, my system will get used to this again soon.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s all quite nice but I’m having some difficulty processing all of this. It’s as if my brain has been reset. I’ll try not to go crazy in the land of plenty…

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I don’t get it

Can you imagine a Hitler themed bar? It would be decorated in swastikas and various symbols of the third reich. Wouldn’t that be charming? Wouldn’t that be stylish? Wouldn’t that be so kitsch? No, it wouldn’t of course. It would be the height of bad taste and insensitivity. What kind of creep would go to a place like that? Well, it turns out that there is something just as bad in New York City, it’s a Mao themed bar. I can’t find the link to it, but here’s one talking about a Mao restaurant.

Just in case you’ve forgotten, Mao killed far more people than Hitler. I’m not saying that Hitler was a great guy, just that Mao was, at the very least, another mass murderer. In point of fact, Mao dwarfs Hitler in the body count department. And yet, in certain circles, Mao and his iconography is seen as hip, kitsch style. I’ve also seen Soviet iconography creeping into “style.” I’m thinking that it’s some sort of retro, 80’s flashback look. Seeing as I lived through the last part of the Soviet empire, I can’t really see that stuff in anything but a bad light.

You see, as soon as I was able to understand what was going on in the news, I feared and was angry at the Soviets. I learned what the word dissident meant when I was 8 years old. When I think of the Soviet Union, I think of the KGB (and their sister force, the Stassi) endless lines for goods, and people literally dying to leave the worker’s paradise. One of my strongest memories is the image of bodies strung up in barbed wire. They had been shot as they tried to escape. I have no idea where I saw those pictures, I can’t imagine that they would have shown that on the news back then, and I’m not sure where I would have had access to that sort of thing. Maybe it was in an article in National Geographic or some other magazine. It may have also been from East Germany, but it’s all the same to me. I remember reading the caption and being horrified. I was probably all of 12 or 13 years old.

I was also always impressed by the stories of people defecting to the US. I knew that many people didn’t make it over to the West, and I was amazed that people risked their lives just in order to come to where I lived. So when I see a shirt with a hammer and sickle on it being worn by an American, it makes my stomach churn. The Soviet Union was a brutal, repressive state. North Korea is really the only remnant left thank God. We have gotten spoiled in the last little while. Without the Soviets around, we forget what a truly repressive regime is like. They were brutal, how many millions of people were killed, jailed, or just disappeared? Granted, Stalin was responsible for a big chunk of that, but the message was sent by him and the status quo was kept by his replacements. How can any “hipster” sport symbols of that most awful of times?

At least there’s the possibility that the person wearing Soviet iconography is actually supporting some sort of ideological point of view. I am convinced that that ideology is morally bankrupt, but at least that person might have a political excuse for that. Mao shirts have no redeeming value. When you put a person on your shirt, we have to think of that person. A government is big enough that we might, possibly have different opinions on it. The people wearing Mao t-shirts would have been the first on the list to be killed during the cultural revolution. To me, it is not hip, it is not kitsch, it is just putting the killer of millions of people on you. I can’t imagine any good things that I could think about that. I also wonder why people don’t put John Wayne Gacy or the BTK killer on their shirts if they want to be “edgy.” Oh, that’s right, they didn’t kill enough people. If you’re going to put a killer on your shirt, make it a big one…

So the real question is, “Why do the Soviets and Mao get a free pass from so many people?” Seriously, Hitler is universally reviled (as he should be), but the bigger killers like Mao and Stalin aren’t really thought about much. Why isn’t being called a “Soviet” as big an insult as being called a Nazi? Why isn’t being called a Maoist enough to send people into a rage? With the history the US has, I can understand people being sensitive to racism, and Hitler was the poster boy of racism gone amuck. But why don’t we Americans hate Mao and the Soviets (Stalin in particular) with the same vigor as Hitler? I’m afraid to think that the answer might be that people are more willing to accept “political” violence than racist violence. Somehow, Hitler was just evil while the other guys were trying to “achieve” something, so it’s not as bad…

Call me weird if you must, but I consider all of them, Hitler, Mao, Pol Pot, Stalin, and the systems that lead to their power to be monsters. You’ll note that communism was behind three of the four. Another authoritarian system was behind the other. Maybe it’s just ignorance that is allowing the others to get a free pass culturally from Americans. If that’s the case, I’m going to do my damnedest to educate people….

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Fun with Europeans

The last full, nonairport day I was in the states was a sunday. While looking through the ads, one caught my eye. It was from Bass Pro Shops and strangely enough there wasn’t any tackle or boats being advertised. Nope they were gearing up for the fall deer season and the things that were most prominently advertised were guns. I had never seen so many in an ad before, I had seen the occasional shotgun or .22 advertised, but never a handgun or larger caliber rifles. They had everything from the bolt action .22 up to 30-06 rifles and handguns ranging from .22 to the .357 and .44 magnums in addition to all sorts of 12 and 10 gauge shotguns and ammo. The entire thing was about 8 pages.

Like I said, I was a bit surprised, but not shocked. The first thing I thought of was my European housemates. I have yet to meet a European that can appreciate, let alone not get freaked out by Americans and their love of guns. To be fair, a lot of Americans don’t like it either but I have come around a bit on hunting. When I was growing up, I always associated hunters with the redneck crowd. Let’s face it, that’s probably mostly true, but what they do is more important than what they are. The Spanish women last night were predictably appalled by guns and the hunting culture until I pointed out that we still have quite a bit of wildlife in the States. I get the impression that that is not the case in most of Europe. Not only do we have a lot of deer in particular, but we don’t really have any predators to keep the population under control. Deer in rural areas would simply starve in the winter if left to their own devices. Deer in more populated areas have the same problem, but they also cause problems when they interact with people. This wouldn’t be too much of a problem if all they did was eat the lawns and shrubs, but when they “interact” with cars, they are deadly. I think that a couple of women last night actually understood why hunters (and their guns) are needed in the US. That doesn’t explain the handguns in the ad of course, but they didn’t notice that and I didn’t bring it up:-)

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